tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-47318771297097316962024-03-14T20:26:07.389+02:00Dimensiunea umanaDefinitorie pentru om este natura preocuparilor sale.In importanta pe care o da lucrurilor, slabiciunea pentru unele, indiferenta pentru altele sta secretul fericirii sau nefericirii sale. Lipsa perspectivei detasate asupra acestora il poate face sclav orb al detaliilor care ii vor sufoca astfel viata.Frumusetea launtrica a unui om este data de gandurile pe care le poarta in fiecare moment cu el.Acestea i se reflecta ca o haina lumninoasa sau dimpotriva pe chip!Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger404125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4731877129709731696.post-45165075453282209452022-11-26T19:47:00.008+02:002022-11-26T21:53:00.656+02:00Puterea Claritatii si a Sensului in Viata<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEh7iKRyEjBoZV2xmtqI0CZ_N2VLHK_mkskx4PdkEitD70bRny5VBr3t8VP8mg8m-3S6unm4cmG4CoxQJmxH2XMgwR6kn5pEnzXmQFCCm_Jd9NqK_QLKFsVvGayVEBBqUTwSGyWnw1tY9a4T2oIC0FPVbE-XL41jqCoeo6He9wX8r6WntyevZr8R4Ts-nQ" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="" data-original-height="3376" data-original-width="6000" height="180" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/a/AVvXsEh7iKRyEjBoZV2xmtqI0CZ_N2VLHK_mkskx4PdkEitD70bRny5VBr3t8VP8mg8m-3S6unm4cmG4CoxQJmxH2XMgwR6kn5pEnzXmQFCCm_Jd9NqK_QLKFsVvGayVEBBqUTwSGyWnw1tY9a4T2oIC0FPVbE-XL41jqCoeo6He9wX8r6WntyevZr8R4Ts-nQ" width="320" /></a></div><br /> <p></p><p><span style="font-size: medium;">Cei mai mulți dintre noi știu cel mult ce nu vor să mai aibă în viață. Adesea știm doar ce nu mai vrem să se mai întâmple cu noi și în jurul nostru. Ne ascundem această nemulțumire în spatele unei dorințe vagi ca lucrurile să se întâmple „cu sens" în viața noastră.</span></p><p><span style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: medium;">Ești nemulțumit și vii la mine pentru că vrei o schimbare în viața ta. Mai precis, iți dorești „schimbarea cu sens". Te uiți la mine și nu vrei coaching, vrei ghidare, ai nevoie de o scurtătură: „- Spune-mi cum să fac!".</span></p><p><span style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: medium;">Înainte de a vedea încotro să mergi, te ajut să vezi unde ești acum. Nu există soluții magice care să fie și universale. Chiar daca avem o psihologie comună suntem diferiți prin experiențe, istorie, felul în care am integrat tot ce am primit și prin alegerile pe care le facem în fiecare secundă, conștient și inconștient. Și, DA, cel mai adesea iți văd calea cu claritate, dar stiu că nu te ajută să sărim peste tot acel proces de căutare și clarificare.</span></p><p><span style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: medium;">Prima putere în călătoria spre sens este cea a clarității. PUTEREA CLARITĂȚII vine din simplitate și din întrebările corecte. Asta este treaba mea de coach și iți ofer 4 luni de clarificare în <a href="https://www.facebook.com/BLP.Community" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">BIG LIFE PROJECT</a>. Ce te mișcă, ce te oprește, ce este cu adevărat important pentru tine, ce te bucura, de ce te bucura, ce te întristează și ce poate să te doboare. Și dintr-o dată se face lumină și se eliberează calea. </span></p><p><span style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: medium;">Este important procesul și oamenii alături de care te luminezi.</span></p><p><span style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: medium;">După ce ai claritate, vedem încotro mergi, iți dau DIRECȚIA și BUSOLA. </span></p><p><span style="font-size: medium;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-size: medium;">Claritatea te va ajuta să iți alegi propriul sens în viață și propriile instrumente de descifrare a direcției. Vei descoperi calea și instrumentele proprii, nu ale mamei tale, ale profesorului, ale societății sau ale oricărei alte influențe, chiar daca acestea se interpun natural în alegerile tale.</span></p><p><br /></p><p><span style="font-size: medium;">De aici vom începe să vedem VIAȚA CU SENS.</span></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0Big Life Project44.4267674 26.102538412.149317449364304 -9.0537116 76.7042173506357 61.2587884tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4731877129709731696.post-82916643867920494482020-05-08T19:01:00.001+03:002020-05-08T19:51:01.363+03:00NATURE vs NURTURE in relatiile umane?!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span class="s1" style="font-kerning: none;"><span style="font-size: large;">Timp de 25 de ani mi-am iubit sotia si copiii, pe masura ce au venit. </span></span></div>
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<span class="s1" style="font-kerning: none;"><span style="font-size: large;">Multa vreme am fost surprins sa vad ca asta nu este de ajuns. </span></span></div>
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<span class="s1" style="font-kerning: none;"><span style="font-size: large;">Uneori, mesajul meu nu ajungea cum trebuie la celalt capat al relatiei. </span></span></div>
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<span class="s1" style="font-kerning: none;"><span style="font-size: large;">Alteori, emotia sau informatia trimise de la mine nu isi gaseau "solul", locul sau timpul potrivit si nu "incolteau".</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1" style="font-kerning: none;"><span style="font-size: large;">O vreme m-am indreptatit si m-am frustrat. Cine nu s-ar frustra? Doar dadeam totul!!</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1" style="font-kerning: none;"><span style="font-size: large;">Cu timpul am inteles un lucru: imi doresc sa am, cu cei pe care ii iubesc, relatii pline, frumoase, care sa ne creasca si asta depinde mult de felul in care ii ascult si le vorbesc. </span></span></div>
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<span class="s1" style="font-kerning: none;"><span style="font-size: large;">Indiferent cat de autentica si generoasa este comunicarea mea, ea este buna sau proasta doar in functie de rezultatele ei. Si atunci, mi-am luat responsabilitatea calitatii acestei comunicari. </span></span></div>
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<span class="s1" style="font-kerning: none;"><span style="font-size: large;">Voi vorbi aici despre cateva din experientele si intelesurile mele legate de relatia de cuplu si nu numai. Unde am gresit, ce m-a ajutat, ce am invatat.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1" style="font-kerning: none;"><span style="font-size: large;">(Va urma)</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1" style="font-kerning: none;"><span style="font-size: large;">Pana revin, cautati sa vedeti :</span></span></div>
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<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c-OF0OaK3o0" target="_blank"><span style="font-size: large;">Three Identical Strangers</span><span style="font-size: large; text-decoration-line: underline;"> </span></a></div>
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<span class="s1" style="font-kerning: none;"><span style="font-size: large;">Cat din ce suntem si ce devenim, individual si in relatiile noastre este NATURA, destin, de la Dumnezeu si cat vine din MEDIU, alegeri, educatie?! </span></span></div>
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<span class="s1" style="font-kerning: none;"><span style="font-size: large;">E un documentar care va va pune pe ganduri.</span></span></div>
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E mai greu sa mergi incet decat repede.<br />
Repede stie oricine.<br />
Inainte sa grabesti pe cineva, mergi in ritmul lui.<br />
Mie nu mi-a fost asa usor sa fac asta.<br />
De multe ori am vazut sau am intuit ca oul este stricat si am decis sa nu il mananc. Cel putin nu pe tot, ca sa imi fi intarit concluzia.<br />
Am aruncat multe oua bune.<br />
Nu am rabdare cu oamenii care isi spun povestea pentru a o mia oara.<br />
E bine? E rau? Cine stie?!<br />
Uneori merg incet langa oamenii generosi.<br />
Cei care arata, se arata.<br />
Cei care isi exploreaza puterea din vulnerabilitate.<br />
Cei care pot fi aici, acum, cu tine, pentru tine.<br />
Merg incet langa oamenii care isi inteleg si isi asuma locul din lume si din viata in care se afla, in timpul prezent.<br />
Merg langa oamenii care inteleg si cauta asta.<br />
Imi place sa stau langa oamenii care isi flexeaza perspectiva, cei care cauta, schimba unghiul, care se bucura, care nu judeca, care nu se inchid, cei ce exploreaza, cei ce risca asumat, cei care stau in bataia vantului, cei care merg cu vantul, care stiu sa zboare, stiu sa cada, stiu sa traiasca, stiu sa moara...<br />
Merg incet, dar nu tot timpul...<br />
Tu cand mergi incet?<br />
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<span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> Pentru mine este important sa invat; in sine - sa invat. Invatarea se intampla doar acolo unde gasesc interes, curiozitate, sens si pasiune. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br> Sunt momente in care imi este greu; din ce in ce mai multe astfel de momente, perioade. Am si vremuri de durere, durere omeneasca. <br>Durerea are perfida ispita de a se transforma in suferinta prin 3 mecanisme simple (Dr. Martin Seligman):</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Fiecare relatie are un <b><i>rezervor de emotii</i></b>, din care se alimenteaza cu energia de care are nevoie.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Odata consumat si neumplut la loc, el devine un indicator important ca <b><i>legatura este pe cale sa se rupa</i></b>. </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Daca, totusi, relatia rezista cu un cont emotional nul, aceasta se face in baza unui <b><i>mare compromis</i></b>. </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Dupa o vreme, intr-o aritmetica simpla, acest cont incepe sa devina chiar negativ iar relatia sa se incarce cu <b><i>toxicitati</i></b>. Devine un chin, o corvoada, o inchisoare.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Cum suna?</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Ca o relatie are nevoie ca sa dureze de emotiile mari: iubire, pasiune, respect, asta este clar. Ce vreau sa adaug eu aici este ca acest cont are nevoie sa fie alimentat permanent cu... emotii mici!!!</span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;"><b><i style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Cand si cum poate fi alimentat contul cu emotii al unei relatii?</i></b></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Este ca intr-un joc!</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Din cand in cand, pe ecran iti apare OFERTA. </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Partenerul isi exprima o NEVOIE care este pentru tine o OFERTA pentru CONEXIUNE.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;"><b><i>O observi</i></b>? /sau <b><i>Nu o Observi</i></b>?</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;"><b><i>O iei in considerare</i></b> sau <b><i>nu o iei in considerare</i></b>?</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;"><b><i>O executi "state of art"</i></b> sau doar <b><i>lipsit de entuziasm</i></b>?</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;"><b>In functie de asta, relatia castiga puncte!!!</b>!</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Pentru aceasta ai nevoie sa intelegi aceste mecanisme si sa ai suficienta inteligenta emotionala si sociala pentru a le observa si fructifica.</span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;"><b><i style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Cum recunoastem OFERTELE DE CONEXIUNE ale partenerului?</i></b></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Ele sunt simple.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Sunt momente in care celalt are nevoie de ceva, iti arata acest lucru intr-un fel sau altul, tu observi acest lucru si i-l oferi.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Poate fi un pahar cu apa atunci cand ii este sete sau doar nevoia de a-l imbratisa, atunci cand ii este greu.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Poate fi cererea de a petrece impreuna timp de calitate, nevoia ca tu sa ai generozitatea de a fi aici, acum, doar pentru el sau ea.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Poate fi mai mult:</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Sacrificiul unui parinte, copil, sot sau sotie, iubit iubita.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Maretia ca tu sa renunti la ceva pentru a i-l oferi lui sau ei.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Cine merita aceasta generozitate, este alegerea ta?</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Ce imi devine mie din ce in ce mai clar este ca liderii mari au aceasta disponibilitate cu prisosinta.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Asadar, <b><i>contul emotional al relatiei este un indicator important pentru a vedea trainicia ei.</i></b></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Atunci cand un partener din relatie lanseaza o oferta/cerere de alimentare a acestui cont, cand mesajul spus sau nespus este: </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">vreau... sau </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">am nevoie... </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">pentru mine este important asta... </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">simplul fapt ca celalalt raspunde sau ca, dimpotriva, intoarce spatele, este un semnal pentru cat de puternica este relatia si daca sau cat mai dureaza aceasta legatura.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Gottman a studiat aceasta disponibilitate de a raspunde la aceste cereri/oferte marunte de conexiune, in cazul a 130 de cupluri de proaspat casatoriti. </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">A filmat, cu acordul acestora, cum se desfasoara viata de cuplu in timpul unei zile.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Acolo unde , dupa 6 ani de la studiu, acestia au ramas impreuna, ei raspunsesera afirmativ acestor OFERTE de conexiune in peste 86% din cazuri.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Cei care au divortat peste 6 ani aveau o medie de raspuns pozitiv de doar 33%.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">In acelasi timp, exista o serie de <b><i>comportamente toxice</i></b> intr-o relatie care genereaza emotii negative si care scade contul emotional al relatiei. Sunt 4 mari: <b><i>Acuzarea</i></b>, <b><i>Atitudinea defensiva</i></b>, <b><i>Dispretul </i></b>sau Lipsa de respect si<b><i> Indiferenta</i></b> sau Blocajul.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Deci, <b><i>ce poti face pentru cineva cu care vrei sa cresti relatia? </i></b></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;"><b><i>RASPUNS:</i></b> Creste contul emotiilor bune observand aceste cereri simple de CONEXIUNE si raspunzandu-le cu bucurie, cu entuziasm, cu generozitate: Sunt AICI, ACUM, PENTRU TINE, ATENT LA NEVOILE TALE.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d0e0e3;">Atunci cand nu esti intr-o faza prea buna a vietii sau doar a zilei tale, incearca sa nu iti consumi acest cont, sa nu il golesti. EVITA COMPORTAMENTELE TOXICE.</span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Am vorbit de curand despre greselile pe care managerii sau liderii le fac frecvent atunci cand isi propun sa dezvolte echipele pe care le conduc si sa le transforme in echipe exceptionale. Am adus o perspectiva curajoasa si provocatoare care vine din experienta mea de coach sistemic.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black;"><i><span style="font-size: small;">1. Se apuca de munca de transformare a echipei, fara sa creeze intre membrii acesteia un climat de deschidere si incredere. </span></i></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Munca este, astfel, de cateva ori mai anevoioasa pentru ca oamenii comunica greu, deficitar, banuind ca celalt are un interes sau o agenda deschisa<i>.</i></span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Construiesc deschidere. Oamenii au nevoie sa isi faca povestea cunoscuta, sa vorbeasca despre ei si sa se simta vazuti, auziti, intelesi. Atunci cand lipseste increderea, se evita confruntarile, raman conflicte inghetate. Abia dupa ce construiesc incredere si deschidere cautam sa rezolvam conflictele.</span></span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: initial;"><span style="font-size: small;"> Sunt multi coachi venitit din companii sau din zona de consultanta care au tendinta sa caute solutii la probleme care revin mai tarziu cu un ADN schimbat. Cred in solutia de management, in standarde si proceduri, ele sunt utile, nu pot fi substituite de coaching, dar ramanerea doar in aceasta perspectiva este o greseala, creaza dependenta si lipsa de initiativa.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>De multe ori este de ajuns sa faci acel <b>“Reveal the system”</b>, sa expui sistemul lui insusi, ca intr-o oglinda, pentru ca oamenii sa inteleaga ce se intampla cu ei, cu ceilalti si cu relatiile dintre ei. Acest lucru activeaza un principiu major in munca sistemica si anume ca <b>“Sistemele sunt inteligente si creative” </b>si poate declansa o solutie mai eficienta, produsa natural de sistem si care poate fi replicata sau adaptata si in alte situatii.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Relevarea fluxurilor emotionale sau a comportamente toxice din echipa este parte din acest proces.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Focus pe sistem.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Intr-un demers generos, liderul petrece timp valoros in intalnirile one to one, incercand sa afle problemele fiecaruia si sa vina cu o solutie pentru fiecare.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Am lucrat cu un astfel de lider. Dar era o exceptie de la regula. Avea cu adevarat acest dar de a face micromanagement intr-o organizatie cu un numar mare de oameni, cu abilitatea unui campion mondial de sah, fara sa piarda tabloul macro al economiei organizatiei.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>In fiecare organizatie exista oameni intepeniti in perspectivele lor si a te apleca pe agenda fiecaruia consuma energie si creaza frustrare si oboseala.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"> Fiti atent la intreg sistemul!</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Imaginati-va ca dirijati o orchestra grandioasa si sunteti la momentul viorilor. Este acel pasaj pe care l-ati pregatit minutios, orchestra il stie, il simte… este acel moment… Va uitati la concertmaestru, aveti focusul pe viorile asezate in taietura de aur in jurul sau, totul este perfect!! Si atunci, viorile sunt dar, dintr-odata, din spate, se aude cornul englez care a intrat cu o secunda mai devreme… Te uiti la el si ii vezi nasul rosu si venele din tapla care stau sa ii plesneasca. Iar?! Cum de l-ai scapat din vedere?!</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Rolul unui lider sistemic este ca, chiar daca 80% din atentiea lui merg catre cei 20% ai lui Pareto, sa pastreze in campul lui de observatie fiecare parte a sistemului. Credeti ca este posibil?</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Incercand sa aiba o fotografie a sistemului pentru a-si fundamenta deciziile si actiunile, managerii performanti folosesc instrumente de evaluare a parametrilor si nevoilor indivizilor si echipei, acele “assesment tools” care au la baza doar unul sau mai multe interviuri. Aceasta fotografieaduce o informatie valoroasa dar doar pentru un anumit context. Schimband contextul ea poate deveni nerelevanta sau chiar eronata.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Introduceti sistemul in dinamica si fii pregatiti sa il intelegeti, sa il vedeti, sa il auziti dar, mai ales, sa ii respecti expresia si sa credeti ca are in el tot ce ii trebuie pentru a-si gasi o continuare. Adica, pentru a intelege cum stau lucrurile, avem nevoie de un film. Si nu doar un film simplu, safe, cu role play si situatii ireale care nu se vor intampla niciodata. Si un coach sistemic are aceasta abilitate.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Poti sa spui despre un om ca este curajos. Dar este important ca acest lucru sa fii adevarat si pe timp de pace si pe timp de razboi.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Odata pornit acest proces, veti vedea cum stau cu adevarat lucrurile in echipa voastra. Sa nu dati vina pe postas!</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>De curand am intalnit un coach foarte bun care se plangea de munca sa de coaching executiv in companii mari. </span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Introduceti Coachingul sistemic in lucrarea echipei voastre. Cautati acel coach care are capacitatea si pregatirea de a se adresa echipei in dimensiunea ei de orchestra, dincolo de indivizi, care poate surprinde si gestiona dinamica relatiilor si a fluxurilor informationale si emotionale dintre oameni. El poate creste in echipa voastra acea a treia entitate a lui Young (despre care poate voi vorbi, candva).</span></span></div>
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<i><span style="font-size: small;">7. </span><span style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: initial; font-size: small;">Folosesc interventii singulare sau disparate de training, coaching sau doar team building</span></i></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"> Este cam si cum ai da unei persoane cu o infectie puternica un tratament antibiotic doar o singura doza, sau pentru o singura zi, si te intrebi apoi de ce dupa cateva zile lucrurile au revenit si sunt mai grave.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span> Concepeti un intreg program de dezvoltare si transformare a echipei si indivizilor, plecand de la o masurare buna initiala si evaluand pe parcurs evolutiile si nevoia de interventie.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></span></div>
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<i><span style="font-family: "helvetica neue";">8. </span><span style="-webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: "helvetica neue";">Se opresc prematur atunci cand apare disconfortul generat de schimbare</span></i></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Atunci cand va angajati in acest proces de schimbare de la starea existenta Primary catre starea dorita, Secondary, pe masura ce echipa se angajeaza in aceasta tranzitie, sistemul cunoaste acea faza de tranzitie caracterizata de “comportamente de frontiera”: unora le este teama, isi pierd privilegiile, alti sunt mai entuziasti dar poate usor nemultumiti de ritmul schimbarii. Unii pleaca de tot...<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Daca ati intrat in hora, jucati pana la capat!</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white;"> Am construit echipe toata viata mea iar acum mi-am dezvoltat aceasta abilitate de a le duce in potentialul lor maxim. Am fost, insa, si parte din miscari mai mari. Mi-a placut sa ies din flux si sa intuiesc curentii mari, trendurile. Cum se creaza aceste miscari?. Ce cred eu din experienta si lecturile mele ca este necesar pentru a construi, cu oameni, o "miscare" constienta si asumata?</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white;"> Acum mai bine de 10 ani eram intr-o ceremonie impresionanta in Edinburgh Castle in care urma sa ni se anunte primirea cu drepturi depline, dupa o perioada de aspirant, intr-o retea importanta europeana, impreuna cu o mana de oameni si organizatia din care faceam parte. </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white;">Am venit apoi in fata celor peste 100 de delegati si a baietilor aceia localnici imbracati in kilturi si AM PROMIS doua lucruri pentru tot timpul in care vom fi membri in aceasta familie: CONSECVENTA, gandindu-ma la pastrarea valorilor si principiilor dar si la proiectele noastre, si CREATIVITATE, facandu-i atenti ca venim dintr-o lume de la limesul imperiului, ca am stat mult sub tacere si acum avem idei, ne dorim si stim, avem resurse sa cream lucruri noi. Asa a fost.</span></div>
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<span class="s1"> In cartea Presence: Exploring Profound Change in People, Organisations and Society - Peter Senge, Otto Schramer<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>si inca doi autori dezvolta o noua teorie despre schimbare si invatare plecand de la nevoia autorilor de a intelege cum se petrec schimbarile colective profunde.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"> In traducerea mea, Teoria U pe care Otto Scramer o dezvolta si care devine un curent cu foarte multi adepti, propune fiecaruia dintre noi sa exploreze frontierele si dincolo de frontierele universului personal, intr-o meta-stare de curiozitate si deschidere. Acum 2-3 ani i-am urmat, cred ca primul lui curs on-line, dupa care am descoperit cat de mult s-apropagat teoria lui in intreaga lume.</span></div>
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<span class="s1"> Explorand frontierele universului nostru avem sansa de a intalni oameni si structuri radical diferite de noi, de a ne conecta cu reguli si obiceiuri care ne transced si de a ne provoca limitele, in felul acesta.</span></div>
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<span class="s1"> In felul acesta, Schramer ne spune ca ni se vor dezvolta 7 abilitati fundamentale de lidersip, nu vorbim despre ele aici, care ne vor creste capacitatea de a vedea, de a simti si de a realiza noi posibilitati.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span><span style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: initial;">Dezvoltarea acestor capacități accesează un nivel mai profund de învățare, care este cheia creării unei schimbări care servește întregului - noua înșine, organizațiilor noastre și comunităților din care facem parte.</span></div>
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<b><i>CUM ISI EXTIND CEI MAI MULTI OAMENI UNIVERSUL?</i></b></div>
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<span class="s1"> <b>Oamenii care isi traiesc viata pe nivelurile neurologice de mediu si actiune</b>, isi rezolva nevoia de varietate cu care au fost inzestrati din creatie prin <b>calatorii in destinatii exotice</b>, merg in Africa, in India sau fac calatorii culinare sau pe drumul vinului, cum imi place mie sa fac. </span></div>
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<span class="s1"> Cei care indraznesc sa isi acceseze <b>nivelul de abilitat</b>i, incearca forme de "dezvoltare personala" mergand la traininguri, tot ca mine. Spun asta ca sa nu fiu excesiv de enervant si pentru ca, partial, ma regasesc, rar, in aceasta categorie. <b><i>Daca ar fi sa fiu direct si radical, as spune ca acesta este un mod superficial de a ne exporta obiceiurile de acasa in medii geografice diferite si de a le largi pe alocuri si pe termen scurt.</i></b></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><b><i>CUM MI-AM EXTINS EU UNIVERSUL?</i></b></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><b><i>Am avut aceasta pornire de a merge la limitele sistemului meu de cunoastere inca de mic:</i></b></span></div>
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<li class="li3"><span class="s2"></span><span class="s3">In scoala am facut aceasta calatorie cu matematica, am studiat enorm, si cu literatura, am citit tot ce imi cadea in mana. Lumea mea era in continua crestere.</span></li>
<li class="li3"><span class="s2"></span><span class="s3">Am facut 9 luni de armata inainte de facultate, pentru a cunoaste nivelul zero al lucrurilor</span></li>
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<li class="li3"><span class="s2"></span><span class="s3">Am condus o organizatie studenteasca apoi o organizatie a tuturor organizatiilor neguvernamentale si politice</span></li>
<li class="li3"><span class="s2"></span><span class="s3">Am fost consilierul unui Presedinte si al unui Guvernator de banca centrala, am lucrat pentru un Primi ministru</span></li>
<li class="li3"><span class="s2"></span><span class="s3">Am coordonat tarile Europei centrale si de Rasarit din bordul unei retele europene</span></li>
<li class="li3"><span class="s2"></span><span class="s3">Am facut afaceri, administratie, am lucrat in cercetare, academic ( scurt timp) si in mediul neguvernamental, am facut agricultura - prost.</span></li>
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<span class="s1"> Parintele Visarion calatorea imens. Iubea lucrurile si oamenii din orice cultura. Stia astronomie intr-un grad inalt de inteelgere. Si se bucura de tot si de toate cate ne fusesera oferite spre bucurie de catre Dumnezeu.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d9ead3;"> Alessa este una dintre cele mai pozitive, optimiste si realiste persoane, in acelasi timp, pe care o stiu. Am descoperit-o tarziu, dincolo de "screen saver-ul" ei prietenos, care m-a indus in eroare. De fapt, asta a fost una dintre provocarile mele dintotdeauna, sa trec dincolo de aparitia uniformizatoare, in care "toti oamenii sunt la fel", si sa fiu atent la acea privire, acea vorba, acel semnal care tradeaza diamantul din om. </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d9ead3;"> La ultimul nostru training comun din Munich am stat de vorba cu ea ceva mai mult pentru ca stiam ca era unul dintre putinii alumni, pe care ii stiam eu, ai unui program exclusivist de lidership de care eram interesat la randul meu.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d9ead3;"> Era pasionata de psihologia pozitiva, il urmarea pe Martin Seligman de la UPenn si urmase unele dintre cele mai puternice programe de dezvoltare de care eu nici nu auzisem.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d9ead3;"> Mi-a trebuit o vreme ca sa imi dau seama ca era unul din cei care aveau acces la "acel" gen de club de resurse de dezvoltare pe care nimeni nu ti le dezvaluie si pentru care iti trebuie o avere DOAR ca sa ajungi la ele. </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d9ead3;"> Am inceput sa il remarc pe acesti oameni dupa ce mi-am dat seama ca multi dintre cei alaturi de care invatam au urmat cam aceleasi cursuri, aveau aceleasi repere si vorbeau despre un anumit tip de experiente. In toti investeau companiile din care veneau. Nimic de aprentele lor nu tradau acest lucru.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d9ead3;"> Allessa era change manager la o companie globala. </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d9ead3;"> Incercand sa aflu de ce o companie asa mare avea nevoie de un Change Management Department la scasa globala, am aflat ca asta ii ajuta pe ei sa urmareasca cei 3 indicatori importanti pentru a avea un angajat performant:</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d9ead3;"> Succesul in lucrul cu echipele pe care eu le intalnesc este dat de felul in care reusesc sa le activez cei 3 G. </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d9ead3;"> Si generozitatea suprema este ca ei sa reuseasca sa fie Aici si Acum unul pentru altul in munca lor. Generozitatea obliga, creaza conexiune puternica, este de la Dumnezeu!!</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d9ead3;"> Este ceea ce isi doresc majoritatea managerilor romani. Oamenii devin proactivi, ccreaza sinergii si intregul devine muuult mai mult decat suma partilor.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d9ead3;"> Lucruri simple.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #d9ead3;"> Liderul unei echipe frumoase cu care am lucrat candva, contrariat de faptul ca lucruri asa de simple, de firesti pe care eu le lucram cu ei, aveau o putere fantastica de a transforma oamenii, si-a dat seama ca poate incepe singur aceasta transformare a lor.</span></div>
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<i> - Le-am spus aceleasi lucruri pe care le-ai spus si tu, </i>imi spunea el<i>. Nu a mers. Nu este acelasi lucru...</i></span></div>
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Am inteles ca intreg firescul si toata puterea cuvintelor simple pe care le spunea Alessa au in spate miile de ore de formare de inalta clasa si bugetele imense pe care le-a investit compania in care ea lucra. </span></div>
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<li class="li1"><span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span class="s2"></span><span class="s1">unul dintre ei era o persoana cu un palmares profesional impresionant: lucrase in cercetare, interfete de comunicare a creierului cu computerul, avea un backround in neurostiinte, facuse studii pe schizofrenie iar in tinerete fusese artist si in plus acum lucra cu echipe mari, era coach sistemic. As fi avut mult de invatat profesional de la ea. Nu a fost alegerea mea</span></span></li>
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<span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">In spatiul acela am claritate, energie, putere. Sunt in zona mea de certitudine maxima si de standarde inalte, ramanand puternic ancorat in timpul prezent si in perspectivele mele cele mai rezonante.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Cine are urechi de auzit, sa auda.</span><br />
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La fel in relatiile noastre importante, importante pentru noi, de multe ori ne ducem dupa fenta, dupa zgomot si dupa acele lucruri care au energie de moment - suficient de mare ca sa ne distraga atentia.</span></span></div>
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La fiecare astfel de poveste exista 1 milion de povesti in care niste oameni au crescut in frustrare si respingere dar acum sunt striviti in destinele lor. Povestile astea nu mai sunt virale pe facebook. </span></div>
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<span class="s1">Lumea prefera sa vorbeasca despre copilaria grea a lui Abraham Lincoln care a candidat de x ori pana sa ajunga presedinte sau de patronul de Ali Baba, Jak Ma, care a fost respins de la 1000 de interviuri de angajare si in cele din urma a ajuns miliardar si s-a razbunat, de Tony Robbins care a fost batut de o mama nebuna si a crescut in foame si frustrare.</span></div>
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<span class="s1">Sunt o gramada de alti oameni care le transmit mai departe povestile, auzite de ei la mana a cincea, acesta fiind felul lor de a-si vinde iluzii ca odata si odata se va putea intampla si pentru ei, si pentru copilul lor, acelasi lucru. Dar, daca se poate, fara munca aia criminala din spate. Sa castige la loto fara sa joace. Daca se poate.... asaaaa… din legea atractiei universului sau citind carti despre abundente….</span></div>
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<span class="s1">Sunt unii dintre ei care “baltesc” in emotii puturoase si stau inclestati in neputinta lor.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></div>
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<span class="s1">Am invatat, pe pielea mea sa ies repede de acolo si sa nu ma asociez afectiv pentru ca - nu-i asa? - oamenii sunt lasati de Dumnezeu intregi, cu tot ce le trebuie pentru a-si face viata plina. </span></div>
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<span class="s1">DAAAR .. tot Dumnezeu ne-a lasat, cum zice Mihail Neamtu, un spirit frumos, cu ‘povara libertatii”. Cat ar fi ei de zdrobiti, exista acolo si o alegere subconstienta pe care ei o fac si pe care EU nu o judec. Stiu ca traiesc permanent cu o stanca pe piept. O inteleg si ma rog pentru ei sa ii ridice Dumnezeu de acolo de unde un om simplu nu poate interveni.</span></div>
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<span class="s1">Exista, insa, unii care isi doresc sa iasa de acolo si sunt dispusi sa plateasca pretul disconfortului pentru asta. Insa este nevoie de o energie uriasa pentru ca ei sa se poata rupe din durere.</span></div>
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<span class="s1">Ce nu stiu toti acesti oameni este ca toata frustrarea asta acumulata in timp reprezinta pentru ei un bazin enorm de energie si de actiune. Cu totii au in inima si in celulele lor un reactor nuclear.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></div>
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<span class="s1">Cu toate aceastea ei joaca mic!!! Au tinte joase si cauta obsedati SIGURANTA!!! Strang ca harciogii orice si, cum ajung la un nivel minim de acumulare, incep sa moara lent.</span></div>
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<span class="s1">Am invatat sa observ dinainte, insa, daca exista din partea lor aceasta deschidere la influenta, buna intentie, disponibilitatea si capacitatea de efort si de angajament pe termen lung si abia apoi sa ma apuc de treaba.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> De obicei nu este asa.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1">Recunosc ca toate acestea functioneaza si mai bine acolo unde exista inteligenta si un nivel de intruire mai ridicat. Dar nu neaparat.</span></div>
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<span class="s1">Deci, pentru toti acesti oameni trecuti prin durere: DUREREA VOASTRA reprezinta o resursa fabuloasa pentru voi insiva. Descatusati aceasta energie si invatati sa visati inalt si sa actionati curajos si cu focus.</span></div>
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<span class="s1">In zona mea de contributie: Spune-mi printr-un un mesaj privat pe fb povestea durerii tale, arata-mi ca vrei sa iti schimbi cu adevarat viata si daca ma convingi, stau cu tine pana te pui pe o directie!! Cum suna?! Like la pagina de Facebook mugurelstan ca sa stam in contact si inscrere pe grupul DImensiunea umana si, pe primii trei care se inscriu, ii contactez si ne apucam de treaba.</span></div>
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De partea cealalta... Ce se intampla cu oamenii care nu au crescut in durere. Ei nu pot ajunge outstanding? Ei ce trebuie sa faca?</span></div>
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<span class="s1">NOI ce trebuie sa facem pentru copiii nostri?!</span></div>
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<span class="s1">" O mama voia sa faca totul pentru copilul ei.<br />
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<span class="s1">Dincolo de aceasta dilema, experientele mele de coaching si "coachingul" pe care l-a facut Dumnezeu cu mine m-au facut sa imi dau seama ce a sadit in copiii nostri nadejdea ca vor fi adulti impliniti. </span></div>
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<span class="s1">"Stiu, vei spune, in primul rand sotia ta, Lavinia!!" </span><span class="s2">:)</span></div>
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<span class="s1">Asa e! Dar ce altceva?</span></div>
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<span class="s1">Dar despre asta voi vorbi altadata.</span></div>
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<span class="s1">O zi cu spor sa ai.</span></div>
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<span class="s1">Si sa nu uiti ca ai in mine acel prieten care vrea sa iti aminteasca cum sa iti traiesti viata ca pe un dar de la Dummezeu!</span></div>
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Am inceput sa calibrez un canal prin care stau de vorba cu lumea. Comunic spontan, nu dupa un script. Ma joc si ma bucur. Azi am vorbit despre transformare.</span></span></div>
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Nevoia de mai bine pentru oameni si pentru cei dragi lor a generat o "piata a disperarii si intimitatii", cum zice J. Salome. Exista o categorie de negustori de " fericire la Kit" de "how to... in 5 steps". Ei speculeaza aceasta neliniste egoista a cautarii sinelui ratacit. Eu cred ca nu merge asa. OAMENII AU NEVOIE DE OAMENI.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></span></div>
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De ce cauta oamenii trasformarea? Ce ii impinge?</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">Raspunsurile mele sunt: Un accident, o boala, o pierdere, un cuvant, o fraza, o imagine, o cearta, o despartire, o rabufnire a unei suprimari indelungate, o limita experimentata doreros, o criza existentiala. Intr-un cuvant, o EMOTIE.</span></span></div>
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Si ce se intampla atunci?</span></span></div>
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Exista o prima zona a dezvoltarii personale, the easy way, campul cu fluturi, care este seducatoare si colorata. Este zona cartilor, a webinarurilor, seminariilor free sau a conferintelor la care mergem de doua ori pe an. Este acea prima nevoie de descoperire si de conectare cu sinele, in care oamenii simt defapt nevoia de a petrece timp cu ei insisi si de a se raporta mai personal la ce se intampla in jurul lor.</span></span></div>
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Ce transformari am vazut aici:</span></span></div>
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<li class="li2"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span class="s2"></span><span class="s1">Creste disponibilitatea pentru relatie. barbatii devin mai atenti la detalii si la nevoile celor din jur iar femeile sunt mai asumate cu viata si traseul lor si renunta la atitudinea defensiva</span></span></li>
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<li class="li2"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span class="s2"></span><span class="s1">Esti mai atent la relatiile toxice din jurul tau si iti selectezi mediul</span></span></li>
<li class="li2"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;"><span class="s2"></span><span class="s1">Schimbarea de job devine o posibilitate. Unii chiar renunta la ce faceau si pornesc altceva cu curaj si... cu frica. Pentru unii incep aici cei 3-5 ani de antreprenoriat in care lucrurile nu ies si dupa aia ne luam un job, dupa care ne gandim sa facem altceva</span></span></li>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4731877129709731696.post-83365506982155370082018-06-10T00:24:00.001+03:002018-06-10T02:28:26.863+03:00CE CAUTI TU IN VIATA TA? Putina claritate...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Preambul<br />
In seara asta, la Roland Garros, doar unul dintre noi, SIMONA, a fost in teren iar restul spectatori, cel mult in tribune.<br />
Ne-am bucurat.<br />
Am impartasit.<br />
Dar victoria a fost a ei.<br />
Si premiul.<br />
- Visez la acest premiu de cand aveam 14 ani, ne spune ea!<br />
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40 de ani am fost o natiune de spectatori si de chibiti. Am stat pe margine pentru ca nimeni nu avea proiect mai departe de ziua de maine.<br />
Urmatorii 20 de ani, ne-am napustit peste gardurile care separau tribunele de stadion si am inceput sa alergam fara directie pe teren.<br />
Unii dintre noi mai loveau si mingea, cativa au reusit sa nimereasca poarta si s-au bucurat de victorii efemere. Doar cativa, foarte putini, au reusit sa devina jucatori profesionisti. Ceilalti s-au intors in tribune, si-au luat job la stat sau chiar au parasit terenul. Joaca in alte campionate, chiar daca cei mai multi in divizii inferioare. Este frustrant pentru ei si pentru noi ceilalti care am ramas. Haideti inapoi acasa sa refacem regulile jocului si sa jucam dupa ele.<br />
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Oamenii de succes stiu trei lucruri, ne spune Tony Robbins:<br />
1. Stiu <b>CE</b> vor:<br />
Au un OBIECTIV si stiu clar si specific REZULTATELE la care vor sa ajunga<br />
2. Stiu <b>DE CE</b> vor asta:<br />
Au o motivatie puternica din care isi iau determinarea de a razbate spre acele rezultate<br />
3. Stiu <b>CUM</b> sa ajunga la aceste rezultate:<br />
Au acel MAP (harta) Massive Action Plan, suficient de flexibil, care sa ii conduca la destinatie.<br />
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Ce au toti acei oameni acestia care reusesc sa ajunga cu succes ls niste rezultate este ca ei totdeauna incep avand in minte destinatia finala si au si puterea emotionala a acelui "de ce"; ARD de dorinta de a ajunge la un rezultat dintr-o motivatie foarte specifica si profunda.<br />
Odata gasit CE-ul si DE CE-ul, planul, se construieste si se reconstruieste inteligent si abil, atata timp cat FOCUSUL ramane acelasi.<br />
Restul este MUNCA, actiune MASIVA, cum zice Tony.<br />
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Care este DE CE - ul meu?<br />
Faptul ca am sase copii a devenit o chestiune de branding personal pentru mine si mama lor.<br />
Ei, Laviniei, asta ii da un "green card" in relatia cu Dumnezeu.<br />
Am realizat de curand, insa, ca rolul meu ca tata este mai mult decat credeam pana acum.<br />
Eu trebuie sa le dau radacini.<br />
Sa poata sa se raporteze solid la ceea ce reprezinta familia lor, parintii si fratii lor.<br />
Stiu ca toti copii mei cred ca parintii lor sunt oameni minunati si ca au facut lucruri extraordinare pentru ei.<br />
Dar mai stiu ca au nevoie de ceva mai mult, care sa le construiasca atitudine inalta, aspiratii curajoase si demnitate.<br />
Sa poata spune ca parintii lor cu adevarat au facut lucruri remarcabile si ca asta poarta si ei in sangele, in sufletul si in mintea lor. Si sa poata spuna acest lucru simplu, usor de inteles si de acceptat pentru ceilalti si fara sa faca un efort de interpretare.<br />
La asta lucrez acum.<br />
Simt ca acest "de ce" este mai inalt decat insasi viata mea.<br />
In rest il au pe Dumnezeu cu ei.<br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4731877129709731696.post-80329908285978215822018-06-02T00:06:00.001+03:002018-06-02T00:06:52.276+03:00De ce recomand clientilor mei sa citeasca "Omul in cautarea sensului vietii" a lui Victor Frankl<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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In ultima vreme intalnesc multi oameni blocati in confortul neangajant al suferintelor lor marunte - la scara istoriei sau a lui Dumnezeu.<br />
- Se poate?! ma intreaba neincrezatori cand ii indemn sa faca pasul...<br />
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Am cunoscut, alaturi de fratele meu, lumea oamenilor care se lupta cu cancerul. Pentru toti acestia viata are alte intelesuri. Lucrurile au alta importanta. Felul in care el si-a purtat suferinta si nadejdea pana in ultima clipa mi-au dat increderea ca, pana si in momentele acelea in care totul se suspenda, exista sens.<br />
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<< Omul poate pastra o ramasita se libertate spirituala, de independenta in gandire chiar si in astfel de conditii groaznice de stres psihic si fizic.<br />
Noi, cei care am trait in lagarele de concentrare, ne amintim de aceia care treceau din baraca in baraca, mangaindu-i pe ceilalti, daruindu-le ultima lor imbucatura de paine. Vor fi fost putini la numar, dar ei ne dau indeajuns de multe dovezi ca omului i se poate lua totul, mai putin un lucru: <u>ultima dintre libertatile umane - respectiv aceea de a-si alege propria atitudine intr-un set de imprejurari date, de a-si alege propriul mod de a fi.</u><br />
Si intotdeauna trebuiau facute alegeri. Fiecare zi, fiecare ceas ne ofereau sansa de a lua o decizie, o decizie care determina daca te supuneai sau nu acelor puteri care amenintau sa te jupuiasca de propriu-ti sine, de libertatea ta launtrica, care determinau daca deveneai o jucarie la indemana imprejurarilor, renuntand la libertate si demnitate, fiind modelat dupa chipul si asemanarea detinutului tipic.<br />
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... genul de persoana care ajungea sa devina detinutul era rezultatul unei decizii launtrice, nu doar rezultatul influentelor lagarului asupra sa. De aceea, in mod fundamental, orica om, chiar si atunci cand se gaseste in astfel de imprejurari, decide ce urmeaza sa devina - sufleteste si spiritual. El isi poate pastra demnitatea umana chiar si intr-un lagar de concentrare. <br />
Dostoievski spunea candva: "Exista un singur lucru de care ma tem, sa nu fiu nevrednic de suferinta mea." >><br />
( fragment din Omul in cautarea sensului vietii - V. Frankl)<br />
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Este clar ca, oameni fiind, avem limite.<br />
Dar aceasta este treaba lui Dumnezeu.<br />
Cei mai multi dintre noi, insa, confundam aceste limite cu lenea si confortul, cu privilegiul straniu pe care ni-l rezerva pozitia de victima, cu luxul de a nu decide si de a nu actiona, protejati de<br />
"nu pot"<br />
"este imposibil"<br />
"nu stiu ce sa fac"<br />
"spune-mi tu ce sa fac"<br />
"este de vina Romania pentru toate".<br />
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Indemnul meu este: Atatat timp cat aveti picioare - mergeti!<br />
Cat aveti gura - vorbiti!<br />
Cat aveti creier - Ganditi! Decideti! Actionati!<br />
Cat sunteti inca in viata - Traiti! Sperati! Aveti incredere ca Dumnezeu ne-a facut cu un rost!</div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4731877129709731696.post-45719496400358356692018-05-21T05:40:00.003+03:002018-05-21T05:55:30.379+03:00Gandul de la 5 dimineata: Creativitatea si Structura!! Cum m-au ajutat si cum m-au incurcat in viata mea de pana acum?! Si sfatul saptamanii pentru tine...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span data-offset-key="ak2v8-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;">In egala masura, am invatat sa recunosc un drum infundat, fara energia continuarii. </span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="e57td-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;">Si, atunci cand nu am avut intersectii generoase in viata mea, am construit eu drumul. Am CREAT.</span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="70uij-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;">Mi-am construit de multe ori viitorul. Am inventat directii. Mi-am creat proiectul.</span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="2s847-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;">Nu am lasat luna, saptamana, ziua sa vina plictisitoare peste mine. Le-am inventat sensul.</span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="48hr9-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;">Ce a dat cu minus?</span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="2svta-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;">Recunoaste structurile fara energie din viata ta si schimba-le!!!</span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="9i34o-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;">* Obiectele vechi din casa - Da-le altor oameni care au mai mare nevoie.</span></div>
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<span data-offset-key="c3ovn-0-0" style="font-family: inherit;">* Relatiile infundate - Schimba-le sau reinventeaza-le, daca tii la ele. Vezi ca nu este comod!</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">„Suntem ceea ce facem în mod repetat; prin urmare, excelența nu este un act singular, ci un obicei.” — </span>Aristotel<span style="font-size: 18px;"> despre </span>excelență.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> As putea spune ca am descoperit un patern pentru o viata exceptionala. Descoperirea propriei PASIUNI urmata de o ACTIUNE MASIVA pentrupracticarea si dezvoltarea ei.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> Am intalnit oameni care nu aveau clar acest filon PASIUNE-MUNCA, nu isi descoperisera inca directia, calea. Aveau doar o imensa dezamagire pentru locul din viata in care se aflau.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> Si atunci au inceput sa citeascsa. Masiv. Dezvoltare personala.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> Altii si-au luat, abrupt, calea desavarsirii spirituale. Au vrut sa il vada direct pe Dumnezeu.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> Stiu oameni care au lasat totul ca sa faca o calatorie de un an.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> De cativa ani calatoresc cu bucurie prin Tara Minunilor. Cativa ani buni. Citesc, Invat, Ma dezvolt. Am inceput sa vad mai mult, sa inteleg mai mult, sa simt mai mult. Imi dezvolt DIMENSIUNEA UMANA. Cred ca este la indemana oricui. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> Am descoperit, cautandu-ma, ca anii copilariei, pe care iam petrecut intr-o competitie continua, m-au construit ca pe un alergator de cursa lunga. Competia m-a insingurat. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> Acum invat sa construiesc si sa invat in echipe. Invat sistemele, le inteleg si apoi le construiesc.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> Saptamana asta eu si Lavinia mergem la Londra la Conferinta lui Tony Robins. Deschis la influenta si dezvoltare. Poate Dumnezeu mi-a mai lasat loc de inca un salt. Cateodata imi este greu sa fac asta, as fi vrut sa fie mai devreme in viata mea dar trag de mine. :)</span></div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4731877129709731696.post-37653863465937507902018-03-29T01:26:00.000+03:002018-03-30T08:40:23.732+03:00SEMNELE DESPARTIRII. Despre ATITUDINE DEFENSIVA, altfel... lasati-ma sa ma dezvinovatesc... nu e vina mea 😇!!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Azi am vorbit cu un tanar domn care avea un nivel suprem de<b> </b><i><b>inteligenta a corpului</b></i><b>.</b><br />
Sa ma explic: Facuse balet la un nivel de excelenta, Londra, isi cunostea fiziologia si avea o buna intelegere a legaturii dintre emotie si senzatiile corpului. Sunt convins ca as fi avut de invatat foarte mult de la el.<br />
Nu il interesa, in schimb, incarcatura pe care o aduce limbajul in interactiunea dintre oameni.<br />
Defapt, marturisea ca prefera sa nu vorbeasca, atunci cand lucreaza cu clientii lui.<br />
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De aici incolo, bine ar fi fost sa va povestesc ce alte lucruri frumoase am aflat de la el.<br />
Dar NU! NU a fost asa!<br />
In schimb, am sa va fac o confesiune (iata, ma vulnerabilizez) si am sa va vorbesc despre unul din paternurile mele comportamentale pe care il repet de atatea ori si de care nu ma pot dezbara. Si am sa continui aici cu o alta poveste.<br />
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POVESTEA 2<br />
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Am lucrat candva cu un grup de oameni care conduceau destinele unei companii MARI. Individualitati puternice, orgolii imense, neintelegeri pe masura. Stiam bine ce voi face cu ei, aveam incredere in metodele mele, nu avea cum sa nu iasa. Si a iesit!! A iesit prost. Oamenii aceia aveau o mare nevoie ca cineva sa le "ventileze" aerul statut si incarcat cu toxicitati dintre ei; pentru ca ei sa isi spuna tot ceea ce nu isi spusesera fata catre fata de mult timp.<br />
Ma bazasem pe faptul ca erau oameni extrem de inteligenti si pe premiza de buna intentie. Dar, mai mult decat acestea, erau si ei oameni.<br />
Unul dintre ei a ramas inclestat pana la capat in "blaming-ul" lui, in reprosul continuu, chiar si atunci cand, "fortat" de dinamica workshopului, a intrat in rol.<br />
<i> La sfarsit l-am infrant!</i> Si, credeti-ma, <i>nu am avut nicio bucurie</i>.<br />
Stiam ca, oricum, pe termen lung transformarea pe care o incepusem nu va functiona. Si a doua oara nu aveam sa ii mai intalnesc. Nu construisem relatie cu ei. Nu le-am crescut semnificativ pozitivismul, in acest "one shot" al meu. Nu le dadusem suficient impuls pentru a trece linia.<br />
La sfarsit, acel om mi-a cerut sa ne intalnim din nou pentru "un feedback". M-am bucurat crezand ca, astfel, aveam un nou prilej pentru o reglare de intelesuri, de emotii, si vom construi un nivel superior de relatie.<br />
In schimb, cand ne-am vazut, dupa mai multe zile, mi-a comunicat sec:<br />
- Stii, pentru mine nu a mers ce ai facut tu. Si cred ca este bine sa stii asta. Poate te ajuta!<br />
(Stiti sentimentul acela de a doua zi dimineata: "dragule, doar atat poti?!". De o parte sau alta a sentimentului...)<br />
Am facut-o sa inteleaga ce aduce criticismul ei permanent in echipa si cum atitudinea ei a sabotat tot procesul, constant.<br />
- Trebuia sa ne faci sa ne simtim bine!<br />
- Te inteleg. Treaba mea nu este sa te fac sa te simti bine. Crestem impreuna pozitivismul in echipa dar este important sa va confruntati si cu imaginea relatiilor pe care le-ati construit intre voi. Aveti proprietatea si raspunderea pentru atmosfera dintre voi.<br />
- Uite vezi, mi-a raspuns ea cu ochii aproape umezi (pentru ca era o ea), as fi vrut sa vad la tine acel <b><i>kindness</i></b>! Nu este... kindness...<br />
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Apoi a parut ca regreta momentul ei de vulnerabilitate.<br />
Mie, in schimb, mi-a facut un mare cadou, pentru care ii multumesc.<br />
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<b> Invatamantul din Povestea 2:</b><br />
Am inteles cum, de multe ori, pentru a ajunge la esenta lucrurilor si la transformarea omului cu care lucrez, sacrific acel "kindness", nu mai sunt atent la albul florilor de cires. Am salvat ciresul dar florile s-au scuturat. Si asta ma doare!<br />
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Inapoi la POVESTEA 1<br />
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L-am confruntat pe tanarul domn, fara sa il judec, cu un lucru pe care am considerat ca i-ar fi de folos sa il stie despre el . Era tanar, era valoros, mie mi-ar fi prins bine ca la varsta lui cineva sa ma fi facut atent la un asa aspect al personalitatii mele.<br />
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<b> Limbajul lui era evident negativ:</b><br />
- folosea genul acela de NU sunt Nehotarat, in loc de... sunt hotarat (negarea negatiei in loc de afirmatie)<br />
- Ii sublinia unui tert interlocutor aflat la masa cu noi, si care era mult mai experimentat in ale vietii decat el, problemele, greselile acestuia si ii sugera direct ce nu este bine la el si ce anume sa schimbe!<br />
- focusul lui era mai mult pe problema, pe evitare, nu pe ce atractie, pe dorinta.<br />
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Dupa surpriza care ii intrerupsese paternul lui si o slaba incercare de riposta, s-a refugiat in celalalt "hot point" al lui:<br />
<b>Atitudinea defensiva</b><br />
<i> A inceput </i><i>sa imi explice</i><i>:</i><br />
<i> - ca el defapt voia sa spuna altceva</i><br />
<i> - ca nu intelege ce nu mi-a placut mie aici</i><br />
<i> - ca, defapt, eu nu am inteles</i><br />
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<b> Invatamantul din Povestea 1:</b><br />
<b> Atitudinea defensiva</b> vine, de obicei, ca urmare a CRITICISMULUI, a unui act pe care creierul il percepe ca agresiv. Desi denumirea acestui <i><b>comportament toxic</b></i> sugereaza o tactica inofensiva, el este, defapt, extrem de ofensiv!!! Ca reactie la un pericol, acest raspuns intra in categoria "FIGHT". Mesajul lui este: " NU EU AM O PROBLEMA, PROBLEMA ESTE LA TINE!".<br />
Va invit sa reflectati asupra gradului inalt de toxicitate al defensivitatii: "nu este vina mea", victima inocenta, "nu inteleg ce te enerveaza", " nu am inteles ce vrei de la mine", "altii nu si-au facut treaba, nu eu"...<br />
Am vazut oameni care inebunesc instantaneu atunci cand, in fata unei evidente, in loc de asumare a acelui comportament si a consecintelor lui, intampina de la celalalt o atitudine defensiva!<br />
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INCHEIERE:<br />
1. Ce simplu si frumos ar fi fost pentru "tanarul domn" sa spuna:<br />
- Am sa ma gandesc la ce ai spus si am sa urmaresc acest lucru in limbajul meu. Multumesc!<br />
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2. Cand m-am despartit de el era vadit tulburat. Eu ma gandeam cum vor "lucra" in el vorbele mele. "Auzeam" deja cum creste, cum se dezvolta pe dinauntru, cum se desprind legaturi interioare care il limitasera pana atunci si cum i se largeste banda de perceptie! Simteam, insa, ca acesta crestere il durea.<br />
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Iar mie imi rasunau in urechi vorbele acelea de demult: "- Uite, vezi, as fi vrut sa vad la tine acel <i><b>kindness</b></i>!". Picasem din nou examenul de kindness!<br />
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3. In mod evident, <b>NU SUNT UN COMUNICATOR!!</b><br />
Am scris mult prea mult!<br />
Am dezvoltat excesiv!<br />
Nu am comunicat esential!<br />
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Nu este vina mea!!<br />
Problema e ca nimeni nu mai are rabdare sa citeasca mai mult decat scrie pe o eticheta.<br />
Fac si eu ce pot!!!<br />
( De fapt doar glumesc, incercand sa exemplific atitudinea defensiva)</div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4731877129709731696.post-85215500272649323422018-03-19T23:40:00.000+02:002018-03-20T19:33:38.511+02:00REPROSURILE! Alte SEMNE ALE DESPARTIRII si .. … de ce ofer sedinte gratis de coaching pentru cupluri.<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span class="s1"><b><span style="font-size: small;">CAPITOLUL 1<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></b></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><b><span style="font-size: small;">Seara obisnuita in familie</span></b></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"></span> Era o seara obisnuita in care fiecare isi aduna gandurile si emotiile de peste tot, de pe unde si le purtase toata ziua. Impreuna sunt o familie frumoasa si cu legaturi profunde. Lucrurile au fost intotdeauna vii intre ei. Oboseala, insa, isi spune uneori cuvantul. Iar atunci cand se aduna perioade mai mari de tensiune, in care ei nu reusesc sa si faca la timp reglajele, “calaretii toxici”<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>ai lui Gottman fac prapad printre ei.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"></span> Asa stateau lucrurile si atunci. El intra discret in living, preocupat de cele cateva lucruri care se petrecusera cu intensitate in viata lui in timpul zilei. Simtise repede ca astatzi nu era unul din acele momente "smooth"- cum ii place sa le numeasca, si a trecut repede peste nevoia lui de a impartasi experientele si de a-si lua confirmarile de la sotia lui.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"></span> Ea fusese dintotdeauna mai limpede si mai dezvoltata emotional decat el. Simplul fapt de a-l asculta si de a-i spune acel “Bravo tati!”… ii dadeau aripi. Si mai erau acele perspective minunate ale ei, unghiurile din care ea se uita la oameni si la actiunile lor!! Era mereu surprins de ele, de multe ori nici nu le banuia, si asta ii aducea acea privire minunata asupra vietii, SURPRIZA. </span></span><br />
<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"> Dar nu in seara asta!</span></span><br />
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<span class="s1"><b><span style="font-size: small;">CAPITOLUL 2<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></b></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><b><span style="font-size: small;">Prietenia dintre SOTIE si aproape AMANTA<span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span></span></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span class="s1"><b></b></span>In seara aceea, ea vorbea la telefon cu fosta sa sefa de cabinet:</span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"></span> - Ti-am tradus toate articolele pentru versiunea franceza de site! Am rasfoit toata seara la ele si Mihai m-a ajutat si el, cu franceza lui de clasa a sasea…<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"></span> Sotia lui, Mara, era prietena foarte buna cu Ioana, omul care candva ii stiuse toate secretele, partenerul fidel si nedespartit cu care candva ajunsese sa imparta totul: aerul, agenda, emotiile negative… mai putin intimitatea sexuala. </span></span><br />
<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"> Acum ar fi fost si greu sa faca asta, pentru ca, intre timp, relatia lor profesionala se terminase dupa ce trecuse printr-un fel inalt de exasperare - aproape ca nu se mai suportau reciproc. Cand era nervos, o striga Mara, ca pe sotia lui, iar Ioana se purta cu el de parca tocmai se daduse jos din patul lui si isi aprinsese o tigara inainte sa faca dus… Il contesta, ii intorcea acel “de ce?”, atunci cand doar trebuia sa faca simplu ce ii cerea el…<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"></span> Ii mai suna in urechi si ce ii strigase, nervoasa candva, Mara (Mara este sotia lui, sa nu le incurcati) despre ce ii spusese ei candva, soptit, Ioana, ca sa nu le auda el (Ioana este sefa lui de cabinet, sa nu le incurcati, chiar daca ea era intr-o confuzie grava de rol):</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"></span> Ele erau prietene. El era cel impartit intre ele, cel "suportat". </span></span><br />
<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"> El se eliberase de relatia asta bolnava dar, surpriza, ele ramasesera prietene!! Acum sotia lui ii traducea articolele pentru site-ul ei de cacat, in versiunea franceza. El facuse asta ca semn de respect major pentru sotia lui; EL statuse langa ea, sa o ajute sa termine ceea ce EA isi luase pe cap singura si acum o chinuia infiorator. </span></span><br />
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><b><i>“… M-A AJUTAT SI MIHAI, CU FRANCEZA LUI DE CLASA A SASEA….”</i></b></span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>-<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>Mara, te-am rugat sa nu ma expui in felul asta! Ma simt groaznic! (Reusise cu greu sa nu ii zica Ioana). Ai putea sa nu mai faci asta, te rog?!</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>-<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>Nu inteleg care este problema ta?!</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>-<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>Problema mea este ca mereu si mereu ma expui in fata tuturor celor care au tupeul sa se poarte cu mine ca si cum tocmai m-au gasit in camara lor cu castraveti murati.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>-<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>Exagerezi, nu am vrut decat sa fiu draguta cu ea, si ea ne-a ajutat alta data.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>-<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>Poate ca este doar MANDRIA ta de mascul alpha! Esti dominant si agresiv uneori.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>-<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>Respecta-mi intimitatea! Atat! Si apoi pot sa fiu si hamsterul gama, daca trebuie.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Recunosc, introducerea este cam lunga, dar nu m-am putut abtine!! POVESTEA este adesea mult mai captivanta decat INVATAMANTUL din spatele ei. ACTIUNEA pe care ar trebui sa o dezvoltam dupa… ramane de multe ori doar intentie.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;">Retinem doar povestea, melodia, ca in bancul cu MILITIANUL care se barbierea in baie si fredona o melodie simpla:<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></span></div>
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<li class="li4"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="s2"></span><span class="s1">Ne-au invatat astia tabla inmultirii pe o melodie, ca sa o tinem minte, da’ eu tot am uitat cuvintele…</span></span></li>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"></span> REPROSUL este TOXIC, arde, distruge relatia.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"></span> Intr-un cuplu, in permanenta exista o nemultumire sau alta fata de persoana cu care traiesti.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>- contine sentimente si pareri NEGATIVE despre caracterul sau personalitatea celuilalt</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>“ <i>Niciodata </i>nu reusesti sa te controlezi! <i>Esti ca o fetita de 12 ani (imatura)</i> care se entuziasmeaza de fiecare data cand oamenii mari o iau in seama” (wow!).</span></span><br />
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"></span> De multe ori, o simpla expresie poate exploda o nemultumire intr-un repros:</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>- care este problema?!</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>- ce este in neregula cu tine?!</span></span><br />
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Sunt foarte suparata ca ai lasat usa descisa aseara si a intrat cainele cu labutele murdare si s-a suit pe canapea. Cum facem sa nu se mai intample asta?!</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span><i>M-am saturat</i> sa verific <i>mereu</i> usa dupa tine, pentru ca tu <i>nu esti in star</i>e sa ai grija de tine si de cainele tau.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-tab-span"> </span>Daca <i>esti in stare</i> sa avem o relatie colegiala, <i>invata</i> sa iti tii promisiunea si sa fii punctual, <i>niciodata nu iti tii cuvantul</i>!</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;"> Daca ii priveai de pe margine erau un cuplu ca oricare altul care are o discutie la o cafea. Gesturile si mimca fetei le tradau, insa, o tensiune controlata in spatele careia puteai banui ca discutia lor era mult mai intensa. De fapt, erau chiar doua discutii pentru ca fiecare avea propriul lui discurs, oarecum independent de raspunsurile celuilalt:<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">EL: - Totdeauna vorbesti despre problemele tale! De cate ori cineva iti povesteste ceva neplacut, tu cauti in biblioteca ta de amintiri si incepi sa vorbesti despre experienta pe care TU ai avut-o cu acest tip de comportament toxic!</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">EA: - Nu este deloc asa! Esti un monstru! Si tu vorbesti prea mult si am sa iti spun asta de fiecare data de acum incolo! Plictisesti lumea, doar ca esti prea concentrat pe ce spui tu, ca sa poti sa iti dai seama de asta. Nu esti atent la celalalt!</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">EL: - Scuza-ma, dar asta inseamna “ba pe-a mati!”. Eu voiam sa iti dau doar un feedback. Ar fi putut sa fie valoros pentru tine!</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">EA: - Nu este nimic valoros aici. Pur si simplu nu te mai suport!</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;"> Privind din afara la acest dialog al surzilor, si am zis bine privind, pentru ca vorbele contau prea putin, dupa nivelul de agresivitate exprimat as fi putut diagnostica un "cancer de relatie" – stadiul 4 din 5.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> Evident, lucrurile nu sunt totdeauna asa, dar semnalul de alarma este ... evident!!</span></span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;"> Dupa ce a studiat 42 de ani cupluri si nenumarate aspecte ale relatiilor lor, din scrierile lui John Gottman razbate un indemn spre constientizare: </span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;"> - E simplu!! Fiti putin atenti unul la celalalt si la relatia pe care o construiti intre voi! Cand nu putenti singuri, cereti ajutor!</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;"> Oricat am fi de orgoliosi in a crede ca "noi suntem altfel", ca efect al constructiei noastre ca fiinte sociale, suntem extrem de asemanatori si chiar de predictibili in multe aspecte ale modului nostru de a interactiona. </span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;"> Cei doi parteneri intr-o viata reala au avut aceasta discutie la fel de reala direct de pe aceasta pozitie de atac. Nu exista niciun spatiu pentru “feedback”, pentru invataminte valoroase si nici atat pentru o intelegere. Nu a fost niciodata loc aici pentru argumente!! Discutia de fata nu are legatura cu puterea de a-ti sustine rational si persuasiv un punct de vedere.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;"> Acest <b><i>“harsh start up”</i></b> nu face decat sa arate un <b><i>nivel de toxicitate</i></b> in care se afla relatia. Un observator calificat si antrenat poate vedea si cat de grave sunt sau sunt pe cale sa devina lucrurile. Pentru asta are nevoie sa stie si cat de frecvente sunt astfel de atacuri “din prima”!</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;"> Cum am promis, voi continua sa <b>DEMASC</b> acele semne ca o relatie nu functioneaza si voi sugera si cateva posibile antidoturi pentru ele. Bineinteles, sunteti liberi sa faceti propriile greseli, in caz ca nu va plac ale mele.</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;"> Ce trebuie sa faci? Doar sa lasi un mesaj, aici sau in privat, in care sa spui doar</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">Si apoi eu va voi contacta si vom descoperi impreuna... in ce sunteti!! :)</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;"> Ma intereseaza orice tip de reflectie, de parere sau chiar de dezacord pe care le descoperi dupa citirea acestui articol si te rog, acum, sa ai bunavointa sa il scrii intr-un comentariu mai jos. </span></span><br />
<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;"> Ca sa ramanem aliniati cu articolul, te mai rog ca inceputul, doar, sa nu fie agresiv!! :)</span></span></div>
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Atunci cand omul nu mai face fata la ceea ce i se intampla in lumea reala din acel moment, pur si simplu el colapseaza inauntrul sau, in lumea sa. Numim aceasta lume "The Realm" - sau Taramul Renuntarii.<br />
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Nicu era un barbat tanar, chiar frumos daca nu ar fi fost usor corpolent, volubil cateodata dar cel mai adesea TIMID. Era un bucatar sef foarte bun. Isi dorea o prietena.<br />
In seara aceea parea ca se simte foarte bine: vorbea cu oamenii, glumea cu fetele, bause chiar doua pahare de vin. Facea in mod evident un efort ca sa fie asa. Dupa cateva ore, un simplu schimb de priviri si zambete intre doua fete pe care el le privea l-au aruncat peste bord in lumea aceea pe care el o stia cel mai bine: "Niciodata nu o sa ai o prietena!".<br />
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"The Realm" este un mecanism prin care multi oameni renunta la lupta si se refugiaza intr-o lume inchisa, dar care ii protejeaza. De cele mai multe ori este asociat cu un vis esuat: speranta pentru o viata mai buna care intarzie sa apara, visul unei femei de a fi eroina vietii ei si care se amana, se amana... Speranta ca cei din jur vor renunta la orgolii si va fi armonie in familie.<br />
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Acest mecanism se instaleaza atunci cand oamenii au fost tinuti intr-o stare de tensiune, de tranzitie indelungata, intre doua lumi.<br />
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Este greu, aproape imposibil sa lucrez cu oamenii blocati in Taramul Renuntarii lor. Ei sunt acolo intr-o alta lume, cu convingeri greu de clintit si rezistenti la orice informatie noua, cat de pozitiva sau optimista ar fi ea.<br />
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Am invatat sa identificam impreuna, eu si clientul "The Realm" si sa ii asociem o METAFORA. Este fascinanta puterea unei metafore de a strapunge "TARAMUL PLANGERII", locurile fara speranta, fara lumina.<br />
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Exista un moment in care omul isi gaseste singur drumul spre lumina si iese de acolo. Procesul de a-l conduce spre vis este delicat si necesita un sprijin permanent. Si mai ales de la cei din jur.<br />
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The Realm este un mecanism care poate cuprinde echipe intregi. Este acel moment cand o echipa intreaga intra in TACERE, atunci cand lucrurile devin foarte grele, si se scufunda intr-o "GAURA NEAGRA". Se blocheaza, se inchid, nu comunica, evita, nu confrunta, au o consistenta de molusca. Este un mecanism de care m-am izbit dureros atunci cand am incercat sa lucrez cu instrumente conventionale de coaching sistemic si ei erau in REALM. Cand un sistem se afla acolo nu il poti urni!!<br />
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Este trist, dar acest mecanism de evitare este specific unei jumatati de Romanie. Un intreg aparat de stat este PARALIZAT. Oameni care s-au invatat sa se "acopere", sa evite orice forma de implicare, de confruntare, de discutie deschisa, directa, asumata.<br />
Sunt oameni care au avut un VIS pe care l-au ingropat.<br />
STIU ca NU SE POATE!<br />
Ei NU MAI CRED!<br />
La noi asa merg lucrurile de cand lumea!<br />
ASA SUNTEM NOI ROMANII!<br />
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Incet, incet, au renuntat sa mai spere, au renuntat sa lupte, au renuntat la pozitia deschisa, asumata, curajoasa.<br />
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Cineva trebuie sa le spuna. Fara sa ii judece. Este un mecanism NORMAL. Ei incearca doar sa se PROTEJEZE. Este un mecanism din care cei puternici se pot desprinde. Este o normalitate care poate fi inversata. Doar sa inceapa cineva PROCESUL de reinnoire a Romaniei! Va mai dura o generatie.<br />
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<span style="background-color: #cfe2f3;"><span style="font-kerning: none;"> I</span><span style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: initial;">n 2012 eram intr-un moment in care proiectele mele intrasera in fibrilatie. Isi atinsesera varsta de la care incepeau sa descreasca. </span><span style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: initial;">Eram la aproape 10 ani de la initierea ultimului mare proeict, obosisem, mediul in care se desfasura proiectul era unul ostil. Ma simteam amenintat!</span><span style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: initial;"> Am mai luptat inca 4 ani, din inertie si pentru a produce schimbarea. </span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #cfe2f3;"><span style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: initial;"> </span> La inceputul lui 2016 inchisesem multe din proiectele care imi aduceau presiune. AfEram in fata cautarii unui sens major dupa un an de resetare totala. De aici a inceput transformarea.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #cfe2f3; color: #333333; font-family: "trebuchet ms"; font-size: 12px;"> 2012 a fost si moomentul in care l-am descoprit pe Ron Jenson cu o carte simpla. Am citit-o cu pasiune, dar greu. Imi intorcea toata atentia pe dos. Muta tot focusul meu de pe exterior, pe managementul si responsabilitatea interna. DIn actor deveneam project manager pentru propria viata.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #cfe2f3; color: #333333; font-family: "trebuchet ms"; font-size: 12px;">SIMPLU: As munci ENORM pentru dezvoltarea TALENTULUI meu si in directia deschisa de el.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: #cfe2f3; color: #333333; font-family: "trebuchet ms"; font-size: 12px;">- Odata ce ti-ai descoperit talentul, munceste masiv in sensul pe care el ti-l deschide. Dezvoltarea si urmarirea talentului personal are efect de parghie pentru viata ta- te arunca in POTENTIAL si IMPLINIRE.</span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-font-kerning: none; background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span><b>O expresie negativa a universului devine REALITATE pentru om atunci cand EL decide sa se raporteze la ea.</b></span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-font-kerning: none; background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Cand ceea ce ar putea fi doar o <b>POSIBILITATE</b> care trece pe langa tine - reuseste sa se insinueze dureros in perimetrul tau intim, atentia ta, focusul, ii dau <b>VIATA</b>.</span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-font-kerning: none; background-color: white;"><b>Aceasta nu este o FATALITATE, este o ALEGERE a ta.</b></span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-font-kerning: none; background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Este adevarat ca existe <b>CONTEXTE puternice</b> in viata, care par indreptatite sa se instaleze indelungat sau uneori definitiv in viata noastra. </span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-font-kerning: none; background-color: white;"><b>Dar implantarea lor in nivelul nostru IDENTITAR este strict alegerea noastra.</b></span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-font-kerning: none; background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>am facut o prostie <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span> <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>si <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>sunt prost</span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-font-kerning: none; background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>este o perioada mai trista a mea <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>si <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>VIATA mea este un dezstru</span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-font-kerning: none; background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Cand ei decid ca vor face orice ca sa evite sa ii dezamageasca pe altii, s-au oprit de la ceea ce ar putea fi posibil in cazul in care si-ar asuma riscul sau ar merge inainte oricum si ar gestiona consecintele apoi.</span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-font-kerning: none; background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Daca nu pot trai cu dezamagirile sau succesele lor, ei isi amputeaza acea parte mare din viata lor, iar camera de manevra devine mai mica si spatiul de negociere mult mai stramt. </span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"> Motoarele sunt turate la maxim. </span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"> Economia duduie. </span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: small;"> Germania este ca o locomotiva!!</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Intrebarile vin...</span></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><b><i><span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">* Incotro merge Germania?</span></i></b></span></div>
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<span class="s1"><b><i><span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">* Ce vagoane se aseaza dupa locomotiva?</span></i></b></span></div>
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<b style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: initial;"><i><span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">* Ce se intampla cu vagoanele de constructie mai veche, socialista, care nu au fost inca modernizate pentru viteze mari?</span></i></b></div>
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<span class="s1"><b><i><span style="font-family: "helvetica neue" , "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">* CE SE INTAMPLA CU VAGOANELE CARE NU URMEAZA LOCOMOTIVA GERMANA?</span></i></b></span></div>
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